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LOVE CAPSULES...Daily Dose from Ray Unlimited.


- What's the Spark you're bringing on?
- What's your Unique Formula for keeping the Spark on?
- What's your Cutting Edge Advantage?
- What's your Strategy to lighten up the Room of your Marriage always?
Many questions....

I hear people ask: "So, when are we coming to eat your Rice"?
If Wedding is about "Eating Rice" then, Marriage should be about really "Cooking the Rice".

A couple of things are required in cooking:
- The expertise of the Cook.
- The required materials like Rice, Water, Spices, Pots, Fire-place, Accessories like Beef/Chevon/Mutton/Pork/Poultry Meat etc.
- Necessary Heat/Temperature for Cooking.
- Timing; either Breakfast, Lunch or Dinner.

The same way you won't serve a meal for Breakfast at Lunch is the same way you must have varieties to spice your marriage cause "Variety is the Spice of Life".

In manifesting effectively and efficiently, you need to understand the 5 Basic Love Languages and which one(s) will work well in your Home, based on your Spouse.
• Gift of Giving.
• Words of Affirmation.
• Quality Time.
• Rendering Services and
• Physical Touch.
It's not enough to be a Cook...Be a Good Cook.

Some of us, in our lives, have eaten different categories of Rice. These were born either by "Circumstance of Scarcity" or "Inexperience of the Cook".
Confusion Rice...Concortion Rice...Colored Rice...White Rice(even Black Rice sef, like Burnt Offering)...Jollof Rice...Fried Rice...Coconut Rice...Chinese Rice...and even these categories have variations(if you know what I mean).

NOW! What is your Spark?
Cake on its own is Sweet and Appealing. But the "Icing on the Cake" makes it more Appealing, Colorful, Attractive, Beautiful and Desirous to consume. Marriage is Beautiful, Sweet...but how would you paint yours to be more colorful?
Create Sparks that will leave your Spouse longing for the Next.


Are you a Nigerian that is not happy with d state of insecurity in the country? Do u want this terrorism, insurgency and...

Are you a Nigerian that is not happy with d state of insecurity in the country? Do u want this terrorism, insurgency and kidnapping to stop? Do u want security for life & property for all Nigerians? Do u want United nation to join hand with Nigeria to fight bokoharam. Then click on the link below to vote for "Strategic Solution to Insecurity in Nigeria". by opening the page click on the "VOTE NOW" icon then type the code that appears & click okay or vote again that appear under d code u have type. Doing this is important for it will make the united nation to decide quickly in joining Nigeria to implement this idea to ending terrorism & protecting the life of every Nigerians.
Are you a Nigerian that is not happy with d state of insecurity in the country? Do u want this terrorism, insurgency and kidnapping to stop? Do u want security for life & property for all Nigerians? Do u want United nation to join hand with Nigeria to fight bokoharam. Then click on the link below to vote for "Strategic Solution to Insecurity in Nigeria". by opening the page click on the "VOTE NOW" icon then type the code that appears & click okay or vote again that appear under d code u have type. Doing this is important for it will make the united nation to decide quickly in joining Nigeria to implement this idea to ending terrorism & protecting the life of every Nigerians.

Globally, insecurity has become a major challenge to all and sundry, due to the different terriorist attacks that is been targeted at innocent souls on a daily basis. This therefore, has prompted concerted efforts from the international community and gove




LOVE CAPSULES...Daily Dose from Ray Unlimited.


Imagine waking up to the delight of having a Lamborghini Veneno Roadster, which retails for $4.5 million, parked in your garage. In that excitement, you approached, only to discover no engine was fixed and no interior upholstery. YES! An empty beauty!

A Young Man sees a Beautiful Lady for the first time and begins to say things like: "Her CURVE seems so perfect, causing a raging STORM in my mechanism. I'm almost tempted to TORCH(Touch) but being conscious of the consequence(s) an error thrust with my JAVELIN can bring about; I can only wait to take a TOUR with Her beyond the aisles and garnish our HoneyMoon with some BLACKBERRY fruit, splashed about like PEARL; accompanied by rhythms from Her PLAYBOOK fantasy. How BOLD am I.

PAUSE! No doubts...everyone desires a Beautiful Container. We have various statistics for such these days:
• Tall, Dark and Handsome- TDH.
• Holy Ghost Speaking and Naira Loaded- HGN.
• Chubby and Light Skinned- CLS.
• Straight and Ebony- S&E.
• Portable and Plump- P-square.
• BBH Compliant- Bust, Butt and Hips.
• ICE formula- Intelligent, (positive) Carriage and Elegant.
The list is endless...

Come down from Cloud 9 and face Reality.

The same way you'll not want to drink with a Vessel that is Externally Clean and Internally Dirty or Externally Dirty and Internally Clean, is the same way you should strike the balance between The Container and The Content.

The True Test of BEAUTY is CHARACTER...PROV 31.

If He/She is a well packaged Container of Explosives and/or Junks...FLEE!

Consider this:
- Ugly Container + Ugly Content = UGLY.
- Ugly Container + Beautiful Content = beautiful.
- Beautiful Container + Ugly Content = ugly.
- Beautiful Container + Beautiful Content = BEAUTIFUL.

She was once branded the world's ugliest Woman, but today, Lizzie Velasquez ranks as one of the greatest Motivational and Inspirational Speakers.

To be continued...


LOVE CAPSULES...Daily Dose from Ray Unlimited.

Conclusion of "THE BRIDE...Not For A RIDE".

Here is why you shouldn't treat Her bad. If you said, when you found Her, "I've found The *Bone Of My Bones*(B.O.M.B)", then, don't make Her explode...*smiles*

See, in every mADAM, there's an ADAM.
In every MRs, there's a MR.
In every sHE, there's a HE.
In every feMALE, there's a MALE.
In every HEr, there's a HE.
She even feels you in Her period-MENstruation and you're still there when She attains MENopause.

Beloved, it's Time you began to treat Her like a Queen She is. Take Her ON several RIDEs but NEVER FOR a RIDE.
She's the MATTER that MATTERS that's why She's called "woMAN".

Now! Stop what you're doing Sir and make your Wife feel safe again in your Love. Re-assure Her. She deserves The Best-YOU!

To the Unlimited YOU!

-Raymond Iroham(Ray Unlimited).


LOVE CAPSULES...Daily Dose from Ray Unlimited.


She's your BRIDE and PRIDE, not to be taken for a RIDE.
The Bible states: "He who finds a Wife finds a Good Thing and obtains Favor of The Lord".

How then will a Man say "She's not good enough for me"? Some things may have gone wrong. It's either you didn't marry "a Wife" or you haven't learnt how to be a Husband.

Marriage does not make a Woman a Wife, being a Wife qualifies a Woman for Marriage..."He who finds a Wife"....

You don't prepare in Marriage, you prepare for Marriage.

Some Men I've encountered do not understand the unique variations in the psychology of a Woman from that of a Man.

A Woman is a "Womb Man". A Carrier...A Multiplier. Whatever you give to Her, She multiplies. For instance: you give Her a House, She gives you a Home. You give Her a Seed, She gives you a Child/Children.

You have no Right to treat Her Wrong.

...To be continued...

To the Unlimited YOU!

-Raymond Iroham(Ray Unlimited).


SPEAK at its PEAK:


MTN came to Nigeria at a time when nobody
wanted to invest in Nigeria, at a time when Nigerians did not have phones. Even Zenith
Bank refused to loan MTN cash to operate,
UBA rejected MTN’s offer but today see the

At least we all know the story of the only
civilian unelected President in Nigeria -
Goodluck Jonathan.
We know how the people said he was not
going to be President; they even made him
acting - President, Today the rest is history.

What about Cowbell? When they came to
Nigeria, they made milk in a sachet, Peak was
laughing at them - they said Cowbell was milk
for the poor - but they were right! 3-million
poor people could afford N10 a day for a
sachet of milk. Oya, do the math - 3 million
people buying milk at N10.00- that was N30
million every single day. In a month they
grossed N900million (almost N1billion). Even
Peak had to make sachet milk in order to
survive in the market.

So what have people told you? What have
they said you cannot do, or you do not qualify
for, or you do not have experience for? They
told Cowbell, they told Goodluck, they told
MTN, but today the story has changed. I have
a feeling something is changing for you
today! They will change their strategies just to
keep in step with you. Don’t listen to what
people are saying or what life is showing

YES, YOU CAN! Success is not about where you
graduated from, or what grade you
graduated with, but what graduates out of
you. Keep the spirit UP.

To the Unlimited YOU!

-Raymond Iroham(Ray Unlimited).

Oscar Winner Lupita Nyong'o's Speech On Beauty That Left An Entire Audience SpeechlessBut a few days before her historic...

Oscar Winner Lupita Nyong'o's Speech On Beauty That Left An Entire Audience Speechless

But a few days before her historic Oscar win (for the first movie she's ever been in!) Lupita accepted an award for Best Breakthrough Performance at the seventh annual Black Women in Hollywood Luncheon hosted by Essence magazine. It was there she delivered a speech on beauty that every little girl should know.

I received a letter from a girl and I’d like to share just a small part of it with you: "Dear Lupita," it reads, "I think you’re really lucky to be this Black but yet this successful in Hollywood overnight. I was just about to buy Dencia’s Whitenicious cream to lighten my skin when you appeared on the world map and saved me."

My heart bled a little when I read those words. I could never have guessed that my first job out of school would be so powerful in and of itself and that it would propel me to be such an image of hope in the same way that the women of The Color Purple were to me.

I remember a time when I too felt unbeautiful. I put on the TV and only saw pale skin, I got teased and taunted about my night-shaded skin. And my one prayer to God, the miracle worker, was that I would wake up lighter-skinned. The morning would come and I would be so excited about seeing my new skin that I would refuse to look down at myself until I was in front of a mirror because I wanted to see my fair face first. And every day I experienced the same disappointment of being just as dark as I had been the day before. I tried to negotiate with God: I told him I would stop stealing sugar cubes at night if he gave me what I wanted; I would listen to my mother's every word and never lose my school sweater again if he just made me a little lighter. But I guess God was unimpressed with my bargaining chips because He never listened.

And when I was a teenager my self-hate grew worse, as you can imagine happens with adolescence. My mother reminded me often that she thought that I was beautiful but that was no consolation: She’s my mother, of course she’s supposed to think I am beautiful. And then Alek Wek came on the international scene. A celebrated model, she was dark as night, she was on all of the runways and in every magazine and everyone was talking about how beautiful she was. Even Oprah called her beautiful and that made it a fact. I couldn’t believe that people were embracing a woman who looked so much like me as beautiful. My complexion had always been an obstacle to overcome and all of a sudden, Oprah was telling me it wasn’t. It was perplexing and I wanted to reject it because I had begun to enjoy the seduction of inadequacy. But a flower couldn’t help but bloom inside of me. When I saw Alek I inadvertently saw a reflection of myself that I could not deny. Now, I had a spring in my step because I felt more seen, more appreciated by the far away gatekeepers of beauty, but around me the preference for light skin prevailed. To the beholders that I thought mattered, I was still unbeautiful. And my mother again would say to me, "You can’t eat beauty. It doesn’t feed you." And these words plagued and bothered me; I didn’t really understand them until finally I realized that beauty was not a thing that I could acquire or consume, it was something that I just had to be.

And what my mother meant when she said you can’t eat beauty was that you can’t rely on how you look to sustain you. What is fundamentally beautiful is compassion for yourself and for those around you. That kind of beauty enflames the heart and enchants the soul. It is what got Patsey in so much trouble with her master, but it is also what has kept her story alive to this day. We remember the beauty of her spirit even after the beauty of her body has faded away.

And so I hope that my presence on your screens and in the magazines may lead you, young girl, on a similar journey. That you will feel the validation of your external beauty but also get to the deeper business of being beautiful inside. There is no shade to that beauty.


Any man who drinks alomo bitters without squeezing his face, is capable of murder....obasanjo(1999)

Drinking Garri doesnt mean you're poor, but allowing the garri to swell-up before drinking is Poverty- Queen Elisabeth (1893).

He who runs around looking for scissors to cut indomie seasoning sachets is not yet hungry- (Sir Dr Nnamdi Azikiwe 1947)

Nigeria was never on the map when God said LET THERE BE LIGHT -Buhari 1980

Anyone who puts stew on jollof rice has trust issues. Fela Kuti (1979)

No mata how hot your temper is, it cannot cook yam. -Goodluck Jonathan (2013)

Any toilet wey clean never jam correct sh*t -Bola Tinubu (2011)

Anyone that read this without laffin, that person is looking for a job - Lord Lugard (1914)

Imagination is better than Knowledge

BBM- 22a558e9

Happy Sunday Peepz


LOVE CAPSULES...DAILY DOSE from Ray Unlimited.


...and they were naked and not ashamed.

Popular lines from the scriptures.
Being NAKED is far beyond being without clothes. It's the state of being Transparent, Sincere, Open, Real, Trustworthy and even Vulnerable.

Adam and Eve were originally in this state until sin messed the scene. They became ashamed and afraid when they realized their nakedness and didn't want to be seen.

In being Naked and not Ashamed, it's about the Man and His Wife understanding INTIMACY(IN-TO-ME-SEE).

In Marriage, one of the quickest ways of enjoying INTIMACY is through SEX.
SEX is viewed honorably by God and is likened to WORSHIP; where you are Open and Lost in the Arms of your Lover(GOD).

In the days of old, only the Ordained Priest was allowed access into the Holy of Holies, with the Blood of Atonement, on behalf of the people; and remember, he must be fit for the task too, to avoid being a casualty.

Marriage is the Institution, validated by God, that ordains a Man as The Priest that should go into his Woman's Temple. At first instance of Sex, just as The Blood of Atonement was needed in the Temple of old, Blood is spilled to ascertain Purity(Chastity/Virginity).

Sex allows a Husband "see into" his Wife(IN-TO-ME-SEE...INTIMACY). Where they both are NAKED and not ASHAMED.
But it's so heart-breaking to know how many people have violated this sacred experience called SEX. God's intent is for SEX to be enjoyed within the boundaries of marriage, where an ordained Priest(Husband) goes into His Temple(Wife) and Sees into the EXtreme.

Well, in case your Temple has been violated, I have Good News for you: The Blood of The Lamb(Christ) has the efficacy to purify your Temple and make it The Holy of Holies fit for only The Ordained Priest again. So, the next time you want to open your Temple Gate, ask yourself: "is He My Ordained Priest"?

To the Unlimited YOU.

-Raymond Iroham


LOVE CAPSULES...DAILY DOSE from Ray Unlimited.

Ever wondered why it's still called a BUILDING after it's been built, and not a BUILT?
Truth is, you may have finished building the External Structure called "HOUSE" but that of the Internal Structure called "HOME" is a continuous process.

It takes a life time to build The Home Structure as against a limited time to build the House Structure.

I marvel at Men who say to their Wives: "I provide you with the House and Money, you know what to do with it".

If it takes TWO people to make Her pregnant, then, it will take the TWO(of course, with GOD in the picture too) to raise and build the Home.
It's TIME to take responsibility and BUILD.
Build that costs more to build the Home than the House.

Are you prepared?
Match up to it...IT'S IN YOU.

To the Unlimited YOU.

-Raymond Iroham.


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